tripathy

Heh. That, I think, is one of the big advantages in terms of life choices for modern couples. Typically if they co-habitate for a decent period before, life after the wedding doesn't really change much and it's not an enormous adjustment. No nasty surprises, either! For that matter I have the same attitude towards premarital sex. Religious taboos aside, in practical terms why would you want to wait? Far better that the lifetime commitment is made with full knowledge of compatibility (or the ability to compromise) in all areas. :D